Despite of several drafts I have put in my blog, I decide to start a new topic on this. My intention is to hear some opinions from people with different background.
Since I came here, I heard lots of comments or impression on Chinese men. Roel said he thinks Chinese man are too polite. Steve told me I lack confidence in front of hot girls (actually not just girls, sometimes it also includes strangers). Though I don’t think all Chinese men are like that (I am a silent person most of the time, even when I was in China), I have to admit that this general image is pretty accurate.
One interesting thing was I found a topic on the internet discussed about Asian men today. It said Chinese men appear to be the least ambitious one. That’s right. Ambitions! Suddenly I felt like I got the answer. It is the root of everything. Without ambitions, you may never make mistakes, but it also means you can never get what you want. The reasons for this might be various, but most of them are culture related. I am sure it is not a good thing and I want to get my ambition back. My friends all think I am a “different Chinese”, because I never tried to avoid our shortcomings and tried to get rid of them. Now I found the most important things I am missing and I will work on it. (Hope it is not too late, haha)
(Why I happened to find this post? Actually it is because the other day Petra told me about how her ex-boyfriend started their first kiss and then I started my little research on how white girl usually think about asian guys. Sorry I am a weirdo:D My thoughts are not linear and consistent….)